Where You Stand Is Where You Sit

There is nothing more frustrating that when you are seated in a large crowd and someone seated in front of you stands up to get a better look. With your view now obstructed, the temptation is to stand up yourself. If the person is not directly in front of you, you may be content to stay seated. If everyone would stay seated then everyone would be able to see.

In life, your position on where your stand on an issue will depend upon where you sit. It is always useful to remind yourself that your particular position and biases will depend upon where you sit. More important is to be aware of how your actions may impact upon others.

I recall one time I had just completed re-sodding my lawn. After four very hot, dry days, the rain finally arrived. I was relieved and happy. My friend was very disappointed that the outdoor activities that she had planned with her daughter had to be cancelled. While talking to her on the phone, I tempered my enthusiasm for the rain with full knowledge and awareness that where you stand is where you sit.

Would You Pull Your Own String?

How many of you have ever been to an amusement park / fair ground where the carnies barked at you to get you to play their games?

Ms. Margaret Brown, my Grandmother, taught this important lesson to me. If you ever find yourself a bit down on how your own life is unfolding, remember to ask yourself if you would pull your own string?

Imagine you are at an amusement park / fair ground and you arrive at a carnival worker asking you to step up and pull a string to win a prize. Imagine that the strings represent the lives of all of those you know. You now have a chance to exchange your life with someone you know. Perhaps you are still single and wish you had a meaningful marriage and a family. Perhaps you are married and you wish you were single. Now is your chance to make the swap!

There is a catch. You know which string is your own. Armed with this knowledge, would you pull your own string? Probably yes. If so, stop sulking and get on with it. You have accepted yourself and have recognized that life is not always fair nor greener on the other side. Be grateful for what you have and find the positive in each day.

The Tiger and the Dragon

The Tiger is strong and quick.
He does not think, therefore cannot act.
The Tiger can only react and respond.
He is strong and fearless but cannot initiate action.

The Dragon is strong and full of wisdom.
He fears what his strength can do.
The Dragon always has the choice.
The Tiger never does.

You must find and learn the Dragon.

Having No Form

Like the figure skater or the jazz musician, it is the disciplined drills and constraints that eventually gives you the freedom.  Very Yin and Yang. Whether it is the free skate or improvising with the saxophone, one must first practice the figure eights or the music scales.  This concept directly applies to the martial arts.

Expression is not practiced through the practice of form, yet form is part of expression.  The greater is not found in the lesser but the lesser is found within the greater. Having “no form” then does not mean having no “form”.  Having “no form” evolves from having form.  “No form” is the higher individual expression.

Bruce Lee